PAST EXPERIENCES

PAST EXPERIENCES
PAST EXPERIENCES ALSO INFLUENCE THE MINDS OF THE INDIVIDUAL.IF YOU SUCCEED ONCE, IT IS VERY EASY TO DEVELOP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE. IF A STUDENT GETS ‘A’ GGRADE IN HIS FIRST ATTEMPT, HE DEVELOPS CONFIDENCE AND MAINTAINS ‘A’ GRADE IN THE SUBSEQUENT EXAMINATIONS. THE CONTRARY TO THIS IS EQUALLY TRUE . MANY PEOPLE DEVELOP NEGATIVE ATTITUDE WHEN THEY DO NOT SUCCEED AND GI TO THE EXTENT OF COMMITTING SUICIDE. AGAINNEWSPAPERS ARE QUITE IN REPORTING SUCH NEWS.MY FRIEND SUBHASH (NAME CHANGED) WAS A HANDSOME AND INTELLIGENT YOUNG MAN, HE ALSO HAILED FROM A RESPECTABLE FAMILY, HE WAS AN ALL-ROUNDER AND WAS LIKED BOTH BY BOYSAND GIRLS, HE DEVELOPED INTIMACY WITH ONE OF HIS CLASSMATES AND ONE DAY HE PROPOSED TO MARRY HER, SHE ACCEPTED IT IMMEDIATELY, BOTH OF THEM APPEARED FOR VTHE IAS EXAMINATION, SUCHITA, (NAME CHANGED) HIS GIRL FRIEND, QUALIFIED IN THE EXAMINATION BUT SUBHASH DID NOT, SUCHITA WAS POATED IN ONE OF THE STATES OF INDIA, FAR AWAY FROM SUBHASH, WHEREAS SUBHASH CONTINUED HIS STUDIES IN THE SAME COLLEGE, DAYS PASSED BY, IN THE BEGINNING THE TELEPHONE CALLS AND LETTERS WEWR QUITE FREQUENT, BUT GRADUALLY THE RESPONSE FROM SUCHITA DECLINED AND ONE DAY IT CAME TO A STANDSTILL, SUBHASH WAS INITIALLY DISAPPOINTED, LATER HE LEARNT THAT SUCHITA GOT MARRIED TO ANOTHER IAS FELLOW WHO WAS HER COLLEAGUE IN THE SAME PLACE, SINCE THEN SUBHASH REFUSED TO BELIEVE ANYODY, THE FAIR SEX, HE DEVELOPED A DISLIKE FOR THE FAIR SEX AND DECIDED NOT TO MARRY, THIS SORT OF NEGATIVE ATTITUDE WAS DEVELOPED BECAUSE OF HIS BITTER EXPERIENCE IN LIFE.